Dissatisfaction with the size of your penis is common to many men, which is why I reviewed the best creams for penis enlargement in this blog.
The concern is that one’s penis is not big enough to satisfy their partner and many are ashamed to even show it, especially in the flaccid state.
It is a concern that is often part of the normal male experience; it can begin in childhood in the confrontation with the penises of playmates, or in adolescence, perhaps after having seen erotic images with particularly gifted males, or in the locker room where the penises show themselves in a flaccid state.
If the discomfort becomes excessive, it can lead to psycho-sexual problems or present as “small penis syndrome” with compulsive control rituals, body dysmorphic disorder or as part of a psychosis.
The basis of so many anxieties is the idea that a longer and thicker penis improves both aesthetics and sexual function; in addition, the male imaginary assumes that the average length of an erect penis is at least 15 cm.
So much dissatisfaction generates insecurity, leads to dislike oneself at all, even physically; conversely, healthy men, satisfied with the size of their members, have higher self-esteem, feel more manly and are more serene sexually.
Does penis size really matter?
The sizes of the penis also change according to the countries in the world I have published a table with the lengths of the penises by geographical area). The primacy goes to some African and South American states, the last in the ranking are some Asian countries.
Beautiful presence, physical prowess, care in clothing, self-confidence, social status, sense of humor, intelligence and so on are certainly male signs of first, strong impact and attraction for the partner, they are the trigger of falling in love initial.
However, in sexual encounters, especially if occasional, the greater the sexual experience of the partner and the greater his interest in the male “lower part”, the greater the desire to fully experience the sexual encounter. in long-term relationships, the size of the male partner is not relevant to sexual satisfaction.
Does it matter only the size of the penis or also its shape?
Penises are not all the same and, in adult men, the shape of the penis can change over time. The typical shape is cylindrical with a slightly larger glans, but a penis can be curved downwards or to the right or left, it can taper towards the tip or, vice versa, it can have a narrower base than the tip.
If you are curious about all the possible shapes of a penis, read the article on penis shapes.
The measures of pleasure
So, in common experience, is sexual pleasure or is it not a question of cm?
In fact, in the couple relationship, it is winning to focus one’s attention on what gives both the greatest enjoyment, rather than fussing over possible judgments or prejudices of the partner about one’s own size .
Large, medium or small, the important thing is to know how to do the best for a satisfying sex life!
Furthermore, the many clinical researches in the sector and surveys, based on anonymous male self-assessment, prove that the majority of men, not suffering from erectile dysfunction, have adequate measures for satisfactory penetration.
Penis measurements for female orgasm
In a female partner, the times of sexual arousal are, generally, longer than those of a man, therefore the stimulation of her erogenous zones, in particular those of the breasts and clitoris, is fundamental and preliminary to the lubrication and penetration of the vagina. .
The female vaginal canal, from the external hole to the cervix, is about 7.5 to 9 cm long and 2.5 or 3 cm wide, but the elasticity of the tissues allows it to adapt to the male member.
The fact is that most of the female nerve endings are in the clitoris and in the first third part of the vaginal canal, the one starting from the external orifice, therefore for a woman an erect penis, large in circumference and well adherent to the walls is more satisfying. vaginal canal, rather than a longer but thinner erect penis.
Penis measurements for male orgasm
Male orgasm is caused by stimulation of the glans penis and shaft of the penis, but also by the stimulation of the area around the prostate gland.
Prostate orgasm is caused either by stimulating the perineum, that is the area between the scrotum and the anus, or by reaching this area from the anus with a penetration of about 5 cm. However, not all men enjoy this type of arousal (I’ll tell you mine… I don’t like this type of stimulation at all!) .
Average penis size
A medical study on flaccid and erect penis size involved 4,685 men resident in Italy and visited in the various Italian urology departments.
The study found that the average size of a flaccid penis is:
- 9.47 cm in length;
- 9.59 cm in circumference;
that the average size of an erect penis is:
- 16.78 cm long,
- 12.03 cm in circumference.
However, most literature surveys prove that the average erect length:
- of a normal penis it is 15 cm , in a range that goes from 12 to 17 cm with an average of 12.03 cm in circumference;
- a penis that is estimated to be small is between 7 and 12 cm with an average circumference of less than 10.16 cm;
- of a micropenis is under 7 cm .
According to the aforementioned study carried out in Italy, the height was proportional to the lengths of the flaccid and erect penis.
Other researches prove instead that the size of the penis is not correlated to somatometric parameters such as age, weight, height, vice versa they show a significant correlation with the length of the index finger.
In any case, all studies agree that the size of the flaccid penis is not related to that of the erect penis.
How to get a bigger penis?
If you underestimate the size of your penis to the point of being affected in sexual and social areas, it is important to talk to a trusted specialist: an andrologist or a urologist or a sexologist.
To date, the methods of penis enlargement are varied, ranging from surgical or aesthetic interventions that however have various and sometimes serious contraindications, to mechanical devices, to manual stretching exercises, to drugs with possible serious adverse effects, to the use of supplements or creams based on plant extracts of safe efficacy and without any unwanted side reaction.
Conclusions
If size remains an issue, a specialist consultation can ascertain whether or not your anxieties are well founded.
If the worries are unfounded, as is the case in most cases, then you might like to become a super lover with fantastic performance!
If your anxieties are legitimate, the specialist will certainly help you overcome them.
We too, as far as we are concerned, with the information given here on the role of penis size and function, we hope to have contributed at least a little to alleviate or allay your anxieties and worries about an inadequate penis.
